Don’t worry if you can’t go after your dreams today. It’s not the end of the world. There will be always a tomorrow. The best thing about learning is that there is no such thing as an age limit, and it’s never too late to start
But work-life satisfaction is sometimes overlooked when it comes to finding a job. Many people often end up working just to put food on their table and keep a roof above their heads. This can result in them taking on challenging professions that others often avoid. You can’t be happy at the end of the day if you do what you don’t love. You must have heard people say, “If you don’t study, you’re going to end up as a street sweeper”, or “Why are you pursuing music or art? You’re not going to make enough to raise a family”. These people who say such things, don’t respect other jobs. They complain about dirty streets but shame the street cleaners. They say it is a tough life working as a roadside food vendor, but go out to the food stalls to enjoy ‘jhalmuri’. They say don’t pursue music, art or film but they listen to music, enjoy art, watch movies. Hypocritical, right?
We need to change our mindset. Every occupation should be considered equal and important if we want to build a better society. Starting from maids to high paid workers, everyone should be considered as equally important. Drivers, security guards or cleaners, they all work for their needs and their family. But if everyone wants to be a doctor, engineer, or lawyer, then who will do the other work? We need artists, singers, dancers, teachers and many more people to do our small jobs. So it is important for everyone to try and join the profession within which they are best trained and have necessary experience.
Therefore, each profession has its own importance and deserves mutual respect to build a peaceful and harmonious society. Thus, stop judging and start appreciating others regardless of the work they do. Understanding that every profession is equally necessary can help one to feel comfortable with the job they do. Respect for all professions should be taught at home and in schools and colleges by parents and teachers respectively. That will play a significant role in bringing positive social transformation. It will also help to create harmonious and healthy relationships among all professions. Being a high professional doesn’t make you a good human being. You should behave well and respect others and their decisions to be so. When you are good to others, you are best to yourself.
Everyone should follow their dreams if they have an opportunity to do so but you parents can disagree with what you love. When you wish to pursue your passion as a career, particularly when your passion lies outside the favored mainstream choices, your parents can become the most difficult people to convince. This is perfectly normal because parents always think about their children. In the end, they wish to see their kids do well in their lives and be financially secure too. As kids grow, it is normal for parents to guide them into fields that they think are more beneficial in the long run. It is out of love and concern that they do this, but sometimes they overlook the interests of their child. If you put yourself in your parents’ shoes, you’ll understand why they might do this. It’s simply because nothing is more important in this world to them than your future.
So, don’t worry if you can’t go after your dreams today. It’s not the end of the world. There will be always a tomorrow. The best thing about learning is that there is no such thing as an age limit, and it’s never too late to start. So don’t lose hope! As the old saying goes, “where there is a will, there’s a way!”
No matter what you, don’t disrespect others and don’t judge them. Instead, start appreciating them. Be happy in what you do and keep others happy by encouraging and appreciating them.
* Rumaiysa M Rahman is a 10th grader at Viqarunnisa Noon School and College, Dhaka